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Ladies club Mamselle

Scammer agency Details:
Name: Ladies club Mamselle
Owner: Kugay Elena, or Kugai Olena Anatoliivna
City: Vinnitsa
Country: Ukraine
Postal Address: Chernovola str, 10/2

Vinnitsa, Ukraine 21001
Phone Number: ++380677089074
[email protected]

A case of marriage dizziness by a Ukrainian agency.

My Story

Unfortunately, I have been taken in September 2006, in the Ukraine (Vinnitsa) by a marriage swindler, organized by an agency. This was a big emotional and financial damage to me.

I visited Vinnitsa at the end of September, 2006. The representative of a German marriage agency, Mrs. Elena Anatolivna Kugay (Kugai), introduced to me a really nice girl. At that time, according to Mrs. Kugay, this girl was only recently interested in an acquaintance from abroad. And I would be the first foreign man. My intentions were absolutely seriously and I have fallen honestly in love. I had the impression that also this girl felt real love for me. At that time she had also introduced directly her 8-year-old son to. Her son took me also very friendly and emotionally.

Already at the end of October, 2006 I have visited her again and have invited her to a visit me in Germany. She had got within the shortest time (within 1 day) a visa at the German embassy; this is true – I was there. As a result she has visited me at the end of November for 1 week only alone. In the end of 2006, it was New Year’s Eves, she visited me again with her son. For her had the common New Year’s Eve party (see picture 2) (as a family) the highest symbolic value and she was sure to want to marry me and wanted to found a family with me.

For all activities from getting to know, I have carried the full costs. Also in the next time I have supported my girl financially, she has earned as a nurse only a little money. Also the arrangement of the documents necessary for the application for an exit visa should be cost-intensive. But already at the beginning of our acquaintance she has drawn the attention of me to the fact that it is a rule in the Ukraine that the advertising man “invests” just at the beginning a lot in his future woman. From this requests followed there over and over again for support (e.g., for a winter coat etc.) on which I also supported her. Her son needed clothes also…

However, from April, 2007 the contact to her was interrupted several times for weeks. I found out from Mrs. Kugay then sporadically that my girl is in the hospital (e.g., 6 weeks of hospitalisation in April / May, 07 with pneumonia???).

Mrs. Kugay has written over and over again above high medical costs.
Later I had still planned with her a 2-week vacation in June / July, 07 in Turkey and had booked. This vacation should be a family vacation with her son and my daughter. But 3 days before my takeoff she wrote by sms that she must shift her journey for professional reasons and will come 1 week later. She arrived 1 week later. The vacation ran reserved and her grounds were, I am too distrustful to her towards. I went back therefore one week earlier than she. But I had the feeling that she would be the remaining time not only alone. During the last day her apartment-phone rang very often and she said this call would not be for her….

At the beginning of August, 2007 she had supposedly a taxi accident and repeated hospitalisations. She was not to be reached again by telephone. Also here only information from Mrs. Kugay and the tip to high medical costs. To have, finally, clearness, I have flown on the 28th September, 2007 again in the Ukraine and have visited her. In Vinnitsa she has rented a flat for me, but far away from her own flat. When I arrived, no piece of bread, or waters was in the flat. However, I was the most time alone in this flat. Only in the afternoon I have seen her and her son.

What remained, however, was always her continuous wish for presents and takeover of all costs. My repeated request, also to get to know her parents and also to see again her flat, led to a quick return journey on 1.10.07 to Kiev. In Kiev  she had to go very urgent to a check-up in a clinic. Supposedly results of the taxi accident. Special syringes were also necessary for her, which have been, however, only harmless homoeopathic products.
Before of my return (3.10.07) then her request whether I could support her financially by the necessary ocular operation which should follow now. Their parents would be forced, to sell their own flat, so that she can pay the medical costs … Old story…
After my return journey I have belonged by chance from a friend that my girl has a profile on the Internet at 2 agencies.

My search proved beside a German agency (for which Mrs. Kugay also works), also the information about the agency “Memselle” of Mrs. Kugay and the active profile of my girl. Mrs. Kugay is owner of this marriage agency ( since 2001. And my girl was listed in the Internet here already for approx.4 years!

Even if Mrs. Kugay wrote to me later that her “women” never have contact with 2 men at the same time, this is a lie. Under another name a friend wrote on the profile of my girl. An “affectionate” answer and the wish for a meeting have come very fast. Later he received by mail still photo and also a new mobile phone No. of her. I have called her about the new mobile phone No. , but I changed my voice. Now I had life the proof of her deceitful activities. When I called her short time later on her old mobile phone, she has denied everything and has given me the whole guilt for the situation again. She would never have known about the fact that she is on the Internet and would never have called up other men. When I wanted to step in contact later again with her by telephone, she was not to be reached for me any more.

In my conviction, both women co-operate fraudulently. If my girl has again visit in the Ukraine, or visits even a man abroad, Mrs. Kugay informs about supposed hospitalisations. Also the common vacation in Turkey has been abused certainly thus. I am sure, in “her” second week she was not alone, because during my departure day obviously ” my successor ” wanted to reach her from the adoption, permanently by telephone.

This is a grievous story which has also introduced a very high financial damage in me beside this disappointment.
I think, this experience is enough for me and I will continue my search for an honest woman in Germany.

Joe (Germany)

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